WHY GOD WANTS YOU TO WAIT UNTIL AFTER YOU ARE MARRIED TO HAVE SEX Posted on 06 May 07:57 , 0 comments

The other day I was talking to a young lady who is pregnant and her boyfriend told her he wants to go back to his own country and wants nothing to do with her or the baby ....

With a heart of compassion I told her in the New Testament it states, "a man who will not support his family is worse than and infidel." and I do believe it is the Apostle Paul who wrote that

and I mentioned that the reason God wants folks to have sex after marriage is because HE wants people to be in a committed relationship, then have children so this does not happen...that scripture is in Malachi and also there are many other scriptures pertaining to that.  God created sex to enjoy in a committed loving relationship, however the result is a child, and he wants that child to grow up in a loving home, not with this baby mama, dada, drama stuff....

I asked God to Bless her and for her to read her Bible and ask the HOLY SPIRIT to speak to her heart and mind and if I could help her in anyway I would....

For those of you who have the argument it is a biological urge that needs to be satisfied, there is the fruit of the SPIRIT...called self control and some folks have a biological urge to overeat, over drink, some folks crave sugar and are diabetics and we all should know what happens if they indulge in that biological urge ....we all have biological urges and we are to use self control also ......